heh, realise something today

today have a gathering with the gun gun aka penguin gang.. aptly name as gun gun is the "pet name" for one of my jc fren who is the reason why i noe tat grp of ppl... haha anyway had dinner at anchor point, the pizza.. den they proceed to have some cakes from secret recipe... heh... i din eat tho, no appetite.. =(

anyway.. tat's not the pt. perhaps today veri tired and stress, so din talk and contribute much to the conversation, instead, i listen alot... end up... realise something.. a few things actually

1. U dun need to express urself all the time... doing tat too often might cause some ppl to give less attention to u when u talk
2. Take a deep breath, step back, listen to wat ppl say.. u will be surprise by the things u learn from them.. be it from their wisdom and knowledge or from their naive thinking or ignorance...

altho i say so, it is oso not tat good to keep ur comments to urself all the time.. but we shd noe when to do it and when not to.. dun be like me...

like ytd.. blabber + joke + tease ppl at the wrong time, end up make tat person unhappy, then i oso quite upset abt wat i did.. so din get good rest, den end up whole day thursday feel quite low... >.< oso partially why i quite sian during the dinner... heh serve me right ba..

but at least get to learn something.. meebe i aredi know, juz tat i din realise tat it is done tat way.. well, perhaps i shd talk less, listen more.. perhaps.. perhaps...