连我的老爸都叫我敢敢去追。。。

hmm, juz now had dinner with my dad and bro.. sort of told him my prob... to my surprise, his reaction almost similar to KS... and alot of my frenz..

oh, i was referring to the issue where i like a girl who is attached... well, his pt of view, as with many is that, as long as i dun resort to underhand means like defaming and stuff liddat... going after an attached girl is actually okie.. in fact, to some extend, it actually benefits the girl. He listed out tat especially when there is something wrong with their relationship (which will always be present), being a "3rd" party is actually some sort of a choice for the girl to choose. In an even more weird angle, (as ks and some frenz said too) u might actually be helping her by starting an rs and ending the previous one ... well.. there are more, but wat they say is obvious enuf.. juz go for it.. all is fair in love and war eh...

but despite so.. i still have my own reservations.... i will give it due thoughts tonite and decide my course of action... but actually i think nothing much to think la, even now i am actually trying to get to noe her better and getting closer to her.. so in another way, wat is there to decide? but i still can't bear the thought of being the catalyst for ppl breaking up.. in some way, u can say i am actually pitying my enemies, i worried abt the guy oso..

objectively speaking, i need to noe the actual situation b4 i can decide wat to do.. if i think (objectively) tat i can do better (altho this is super duper hard to judge)... den.. perhaps i will go after her ba... perhaps..